天蠍座的男人是杯烈酒，既使有些外表看來溫和淡然，他依是一杯看起來像白開水的高梁酒，在你毫無防備的一飲而盡之後，馬上就醉的分不清方向了。

　　他是無敵鐵金鋼，唯一免於被他打敗的方式，就是永遠不跟他作戰，你有兩種方式，一是無怨無悔的愛他，再不就是把自己練成金鋼不壞之身。

　　天蠍座的男人帶魔鬼般的魅力，讓你有如被催眠一樣的被他吸引，他忽而熱情如火，忽而冷漠的像冰，如果你跟他挑起戰端，倒霉的准是自己。吵架的時侯，他會口不擇言，每一句話都讓你心碎，你一定會恨死他了。可是等他怒火平熄，他彎下腰吻你淌血的心，那種甜蜜又立刻麻碎了所有的疼痛，他就有這種能耐，愛上他，就請准備強壯的心髒坐愛情雲霄飛車吧！去問問那些曾經為天蠍座男人瘋狂，又為他們心碎的女人。他的魅力究竟在哪裡？我想他們會告訴你——是他的眼神。

　　天蠍座男人有一眼刺穿你的本領。他似乎一眼就看出了你渴望些什麼，害怕些什麼，在他面前你似乎不需要什麼告白和辯解，偽裝是沒有什麼用的。除非你對這個天蠍座的男人完全不來電，否則在你的眼光與他交會的剎那，你就注定難逃這場驚心動魄的愛情歷險。

　　很多深經世故的女人在天蠍座男人放肆的眼睛下也會覺得羞愧，就好像是當眾被剝了衣服一樣的感覺。

　　他總能輕易的掌握你的弱點，如果你不信邪，想要跟他鬥法，最好的結果也頂多是兩敗俱傷，不過這種情況不太多，多數時侯都是他冷冷地看著你遍體鱗傷的躲在角落哭泣。

　　想要傷害一個天蠍座的男人真的很難，因為真的很少有人比他能忍，比他不怕痛。想清楚了嗎？如果想逃，請務必消失的徹底。如果決心守著他，就請你最好心悅臣服，不要引起他任何對你挑釁的意念。

　　其實天蠍座的男人除了對異性有著難以解釋的吸引力之外，他的個性的確也有著獨特的優點。他堅強而有韌性，他勇敢的面對失敗，他堅持自己的主張，不怕所有的反對和阻撓。對於他所選擇的工作，有著永不熄滅的熱情，不管是看他，或是陪他作任何事都很過癮。

　　當天蠍座男人專注於某一件事情的時侯，給人一種自信而且堅決的感覺，那種全力投入，勢在必得的表情真的非常迷人。他在面對挫折時的堅強勇敢會讓你覺得驕傲。雖然有時他故意找麻煩的令人討厭（他們多少有些潛在的虐待狂傾向），但是你仍得承認他討厭的很可愛。

　　天蠍座男人的醋勁，也跟他所有其它的情緒一樣的強烈。這一點你可千萬要小心，一旦燃起他嫉妒之火，你恐怕會很難收拾。“星星之火，足以燎原”你總知道吧！不過，他引起你吃醋的機會可能多的不勝枚舉，而你的憤怒、淚水、甚至尋死尋活，恐怕對他起不了什麼作用，在這一方面你除了給他完全的信賴之外，就是讓自己有十足的自信。不過憑良心說，天蠍座的男人都挺有定力的，他誘惑別人很容易，別人想誘惑他恐怕沒有這麼簡單。不要光聽他說的狠話，想想他為你做的一切，其實他對你也挺好的，不是嗎？只是堅持用他的方式愛你罷了！做一個成熟勇敢的女人，你才真的能體會到天蠍座男人的熱情和刺激，無人可比。

　　如果你決定嫁給一個天蠍座的男人，請終生記得——絕不要有統馭他的欲望，我朋友的例子應該給你很大的警惕，放棄你的驕傲，不要在意表面上誰占了上風。

曲終人散
Artist:張宇

你讓他用戒指把你套上的時候
我察覺到你臉上複雜的笑容
那原本該是我付予你的承諾
現在我只能隱身熱鬧中

我跟著所有人向你祝賀的時候
只有你知道我多喝了幾杯酒  我不能再看你
多一眼都是痛 即使知道暗地裡你又回頭

我終於知道曲終人散的寂寞  只有傷心人才有
你最後一身紅  殘留在我眼中  我沒有再依戀的藉口
原來這就是曲終人散的寂寞  我還想等你什麼
你緊緊拉住我衣袖 又放開讓我走
這一次跟我徹底分手

我跟著所有人向你祝賀的時候
只有你知道我多喝了幾杯酒  我不能再看你
多一眼都是痛 即使知道暗地裡你又回頭

我終於知道曲終人散的寂寞  只有傷心人才有
你最後一身紅  殘留在我眼中  我沒有再依戀的藉口
原來這就是曲終人散的寂寞  我還想等你什麼
你緊緊拉住我衣袖 又放開讓我走
這一次跟我徹底分手

我終於知道曲終人散的寂寞  只有傷心人才有
你最後一身紅  殘留在我眼中  我沒有再依戀的藉口
原來這就是曲終人散的寂寞  我還想等你什麼
你緊緊拉住我衣袖 又放開讓我走
這一次跟我徹底分手
你緊緊拉住我衣袖 又放開讓我走
這一次跟我徹底分手

I'll Stand by You

Oh, why you look so sad?
Tears are in your eyes
Come on and come to me now
Don't be ashamed to cry
Let me see you through
'Cause I've seen the dark side too
When the night falls on you
and you don't know what to do
Nothing you confess could make me love you less.

I'll stand by you
I'll stand by you
Won't let nobody hurt you
I'll stand by you

So, if you're mad, get mad
Don't hold it all inside
Come on and talk to me now
Hey, what you got to hide?
I get angry too
Well, I'm a lot like you
When you're standing at the crossroads
and don't know which path to choose
Let me come along
'Cause even if you're wrong...

I'll stand by you
I'll stand by you
Won't let nobody hurt you
I'll stand by you
Take me in, into your darkest hour
and I'll never desert you
I'll stand by you

And when...
When the night falls on you, baby
You're feeling all alone
You won't be on your own

I'll stand by you...

對於永恆  那或許是剎那　　對於剎那  卻已然是永恆

試問人間有情癡     癡情自古空遺恨。
遺忘愛情。

說個關於　心上人　的故事。


從前從前
有個武功蓋世　好管閒事　胸懷大痣　吃魚吐刺的俠士
他為了謀取一本不傳的心經
浪跡天涯
曾跟他交手的全沒了
塚塚相連到天邊
他還是沒找著
於是到台北東區花一千元　剃了一個光頭　出家去了
師父賜其法號上無下心
大家都叫他無心上人

無心上人的出家生活很規律
清晨即起　灑掃庭除　早課晚課　十點就寢
若要硬說跟以前日子有何不同
那就是因為齋戒
他喪失了　吃魚吐刺　的技能

有一天
早餐是清粥配豆棗麵筋
無心上人沒有入席
全寺總動員
遍尋未果
他的衣褲鞋襪俱在
人卻不見了

無心上人不見了

師父覺得此時站出來開釋
是一種職業道德
他的眼睛瞇成兩條細縫
仰天喟然

「無心上人無所從，有心上人有時窮；天下若無心上人，心上可有天下空。」


時值黃昏
語罷群鴉劃過天際
咂呼著無啊無啊無啊無啊。。。。無啊無啊。。。。

（完）



原文節錄自: http://toysrus.pixnet.net/blog/26

眼睛看著我，就有深情陪著我
不用纏繞，不必牽掛，讓我盡情去翱翔
歲月追著風，任意飄流，不會怨尤
就算醒來時，美夢遠走，淚把我淹沒

天空對海洋說：我有絢爛的彩虹
　　　　　　　可是不安在我血液，渴望真實的洶湧
侯鳥對南方說：你有陽光還有和風
　　　　　　　但是我願意承受別離，飛出你的心，
　　　　　　　讓愛自由

希望對榮耀說：如果吶喊在心中
　　　　　　　何不讓它自己決定，它想要去的戰場
青春對年老說：我會燃燒整個秋冬
　　　　　　　我不要留下任何熱情，不將它釋放，
　　　　　　　讓愛自由

不要心傷，不要絕望，不要徬徨，總會遺忘
也會受傷，也會失望，也會迷惘，用愛抵擋



在許多許多年前，聽到了讓我非常感動，也是意境很深遠的一首歌〈讓愛自由〉。
透過黃鶯鶯的柔美歌聲，它訴說著：
愛不是委屈，愛不是牽絆，愛是聆聽彼此內心的聲音，給所愛的人自由，也給對方一份深深的祝福，即使是，必須離別，有所悲傷，我們仍然擁有那份愛的真意。

( 悼念  那份已逝的愛情。。。)

Rain And Tears
Artist:Aphrodite's Child

Rain and tears all the same
But in the sun you’ve got to play the game
When you cry in winter time
You can’t pretend it’s nothing but the rain

How many times I’ve seen
Tear’s coming from your blue eyes
Rain and tears all the same
But in the sun you’ve got to play the game

Give me the answers of love
I need the answers of love
Rain and tears in the sun
For in your heart you feel the rainbow waves

Rain nor tears both rush home
For in her heart there’ll never be the sun
Rain and tears all the same
But in the sun you’ve got to play the game

No. 1: Huntsville, Ala.
Population: 378,057
Percentage of Workforce in Creative Class: 39.7
Cost-of-Living Index: 91 (100 being the national average)
Median Household Income: $51,275
Salary Growth (2004-2008): 9.7%

Huntsville isn't called Rocket City for nothing. This northern Alabama city represents critical mass for the nation's missile-defense and aerospace industries.

No. 2: Albuquerque, N.M.
Population: 819,570
Percentage of Workforce in Creative Class: 30
Cost-of-Living Index: 98 (100 being the national average)
Median Household Income: $45,634
Salary Growth (2004-2008): 7.8%

The city and state crave high tech jobs, especially in the renewable-energy industry. Albuquerque is developing its film industry with the same zeal. Albuquerque also bills itself as a green city and, figuratively speaking, it is. The city requires everything from homes to commercial buildings to be energy-efficient.

No. 3: Washington, D.C.
Population: 5,263,322
Percentage of Workforce in Creative Class: 43.7
Cost-of-Living Index: 138 (100 being the national average)
Median Household Income: $81,163
Salary Growth (2004-2008): 8.7%

For better or worse, the federal government is big and getting bigger. Uncle Sam fuels nearby companies in almost every sector, especially law firms, lobbyists, and aerospace and defense companies.

No. 4: Charlottesville, Va.
Population:190,560
Percentage of Workforce in Creative Class: 38.2
Cost-of-Living Index: 106 (100 being the national average)
Median Household Income: $53,076
Salary Growth (2004-2008):4.8%

The home of Thomas Jefferson's university is an unexpected blend of Southern charm and liberal edge, with a strong business base. UVA provides Charlottesville with more than employment. The city is a two-hour drive from Washington, D.C., and three hours from Norfolk Naval Base. This proximity helped it draw the U.S. Army National Ground Intelligence Center, which employs 750 people in a variety of fields, including engineering and foreign affairs.

No. 5: Athens, Ga.
Population: 183,351
Percentage of Workforce in Creative Class: 32.2
Cost-of-Living Index: 100 (100 being the national average)
Median Household Income: $40,115
Salary Growth (2004-2008): 9.3%

Nicknamed the Classic City for both its name and neoclassical architecture, Athens is anything but old-fashioned. The University of Georgia is in large part responsible for the city's energy. Athens also boasts a hub of regional medical services and has an unexpected manufacturing base. Hospitality is another driver of the economy and the only sector to have shown employment growth in 2009.

No. 6: Olympia, Wash.
Population: 233,113
Percentage of Workforce in Creative Class: 36.1
Cost-of-Living Index: 105 (100 being the national average)
Median Household Income: $55,129
Salary Growth (2004-2008): 22%

Olympia is a cultural diamond in the rough of the Pacific Northwest. Mischaracterized sometimes as a sleepy government town, Washington's state capital enjoys a thriving visual and performing-arts scene. But its state government continues to be the keystone of the city's economy; it employs about half of the city's workforce. Education is another big driver of the city's growth and character.

No. 7: Madison, Wis.
Population: 548,154
Percentage of Workforce in Creative Class: 35.1
Cost-of-Living Index: 100 (100 being the national average)
Median Household Income: $58,090
Salary Growth (2004-2008): 8.2%

You can't argue with Madison's numbers. It has a long track record of low unemployment, and its jobless rate is currently three percentage points below the national average. The city also wins for its low crime rate, first-rate public schools and a ready-made economy that feeds off its two largest assets: The University of Wisconsin and the state capital, comprising 20% of Madison's jobs. The other 80% come from its strong mix of tech and biotech firms.

No. 8: Austin, Tex.
Population: 1,533,263
Percentage of Workforce in Creative Class: 36.8
Cost-of-Living Index: 94(100 being the national average)
Median Household Income: $54,827
Salary Growth (2004-2008): 7%

While most cities around the country posted job layoffs in the past year, Austin added 3,300 jobs, the biggest bump in the country. The increase covered a broad swath, from professional services, education and hospitality to health care and government. Gains in those sectors more than offset losses in manufacturing and IT -- though the unemployment rate in the area has crept up.

No. 9: Flagstaff, Ariz.
Population: 126,087
Percentage of Workforce in Creative Class: 28.8
Cost-of-Living Index: 116 (100 being national average)
Median Household Income: $48,171
Salary Growth (2004-2008): 9.8%

Unlike the trains that regularly come through town, singing out reminders of Flagstaff's heritage, this city is far from predictable. You can feel its Old West charm through and through, but Flagstaff is infused with new energy -- both from its residents and college students and Northern Arizona University. The university adds jobs to the city's economy, plus arts and entertainment to its cultural scene.

No. 10: Raleigh, N.C.
Population: 1,001,313
Percentage of Workforce in Creative Class: 35.6
Cost-of-Living Index: 100 (100 being national average)
Median Household Income: $57,974
Salary Growth (2004-2008): 5.7%

Raleigh has an enviable economic base, built on three universities -- UNC, Duke, and North Carolina State -- and Research Triangle Park, where employers in everything from biotech to computers still thrive. Although the local unemployment rate has doubled in the past year, to 8.6%, it's still lower than the 10.8% rate for the state as a whole.